Here’s another thing that’s great about having several children.. I have often said that of my four siblings.. we all had a very different relationship with our Father.. if you asked any one of us about our childhood, we would share many similar memories.. but what stood out the most to each of us and what we came away with would be very different.. because God designed our personalities so different, and gave us the free will and distinct gifts to nurture things in who we are in different ways.
I think about this in my own children.. how different they are from one another.. how we can recall memories as a family and laugh so much.. and yet as each one begins to share their perspectives of the same event, each is so different. None better or worse than another.. just very true to the personality that God poured into them, and the choices they made in life according to their gifting and their preferences. I love it so much… just sitting around with them talking about life, present and past, and the beauty of diversity just in who they are. I often take them to lunch every other week, just to sit and hear them chatter and to witness such awesomeness in action.
Here is the thing.. each of their personalities ministers to me in distinct yet very different ways. Their intellect or their humor or their creativity and on and on, is so given by God and nurtured by the amazing ppl they choose to be.. and yet I (as mom) see a bit of myself in each of them in very different ways.. so as we relate to one another, that part of my personality passed and absorbed into theirs becomes a newness in my perspective and view of life. Each of my children ministers back to me so very differently, and yet that diversity in who they are and how we relate to one another, creates a fullness and beauty that’s kinda difficult to explain.
It makes me think of God and how much he loves creating and the things he creates, especially his children.. how collectively, there is a fullness in all of us as one.. and that’s why he is so undone at the loss of even one soul. I think raising children allows us to glimpse a greater fullness in our own perspective and view of life, and at the same time it allows us to glimpse and to know ourselves even better. So whether it is one child or thirteen, your own or adopted children, raising the children of another family member or friend for whatever reason.. when we pour ourselves and our hearts into theirs, it leaves an indelible mark that blesses them and us.. family.. God designed the concept.. and it’s such a beautiful thing on so many deep, and yet, lighthearted levels.
That’s why God emphasizes so strongly to not compare ourselves to one another as his children, not to compare our gifts and talents, as tho competing with one another.. it takes all of us as a whole to please and bless our Father.. any one of us who might suddenly be absent hurts the heart of God and leaves an empty seat at the table. You are important.. you are loved.. don’t quit on your family.. ever.. no matter how hard life gets.. no matter how great the temptation.. or the fun and lies hell tries to convince you of.. you are wanted and needed and so greatly loved.
Each of us was designed to be different in personality, in who we are. God was meticulous and distinct as he chose what gifts to pour into each of us as he fashioned us in our mother’s womb.. what family or nation he placed us in on the earth.. who we would call father and mother and brother and sister.. he planned it all for our good. He knew what evils we would face, and so he equipped us and empowered us and came to be with us on the earth, to sacrifice whatever was necessary in himself.. to ensure that we could win at life if we chose it.. not only that we would win.. but that the person and the personality that he designed in us would be a blessing and help so that every life we touch has the same chance to win. Connectedness among his children, among those he loves.. so that diversity in every way becomes a strength, not a point of conflict.
At the same time, he made us in his own image, wanting to be loved and wanting to love.. a part of him.. called to love God and to love Ppl.. to be Family.. it just boggles my mind how intricately he planned blessing in every area of our lives in every way.
I love you Father, and I love being a part of this Family ❤
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